{"id":143755,"date":"2025-04-03T13:26:06","date_gmt":"2025-04-03T06:26:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shopee.vn\/blog\/?p=143755"},"modified":"2025-06-25T20:11:36","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T13:11:36","slug":"crush-la-gi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shopee.vn\/blog\/crush-la-gi\/","title":{"rendered":"Crush l\u00e0 g\u00ec? D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u khi crush th\u00edch l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Crush l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec7n nay khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. V\u1eady <\/strong>crush l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong><\/a>? C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng Shopee Blog kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a crush v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb xoay quanh kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crush l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, “crush” th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9\u00a0c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u01b0a ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1ed5 l\u1ed9.\u00a0N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00edc<\/em>h ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea7m y\u00eau.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crush c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1 m\u00e0 ta t\u00ecnh c\u1edd g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1. D\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y v\u1eabn mang \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u cung b\u1eadc c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u1eeb vui v\u1ebb, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i hay h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p m\u1ed7i khi ch\u1ea1m m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Crush l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t d\u00e0nh cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. (Ngu\u1ed3n: bongkarn\/stock.adobe.com)<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb crush?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Trong ti\u1ebfng Anh, crush \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u theo ngh\u0129a \u0111en l\u00e0 “nghi\u1ec1n v\u1ee1”. T\u1eeb n\u00e0y b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p c\u1ed5 croissir v\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong ti\u1ebfng Anh t\u1eeb th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 14. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngh\u0129a b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng n\u0103m 1884, khi nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Isabella Maud Rittenhouse d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb “crush” \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 say m\u00ea ai \u0111\u00f3. <\/strong>Chuy\u00ean gia ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng Eric Partridge cho r\u1eb1ng crush l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a mash – m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1870 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ef1 say \u0111\u1eafm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crush tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam t\u1eeb khi n\u00e0o?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam, crush tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh sau khi ca s\u0129 David Archuleta ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh ca kh\u00fac c\u00f9ng t\u00ean v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2008-2009, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i qua b\u1ea3n hit Crush c\u1ee7a Tessa Violet v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2018<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u00edch\u201d hay \u201cm\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh th\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ed9m nh\u1edb\u201d, n\u00ean t\u1eeb crush th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong giao ti\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crush d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

T\u1eeb crush kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh nh\u1eefng rung \u0111\u1ed9ng tinh t\u1ebf trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tho\u00e1ng qua, m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crush g\u1ea7n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, m\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 quen thu\u1ed9c, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n ch\u1ea1m m\u1eb7t m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Crush g\u1ea7n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u1edbp, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m hay ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. Khi \u1edf g\u1ea7n h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tim \u0111\u1eadp nhanh h\u01a1n, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c d\u00f5i theo, hay ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t gi\u00e1c n\u1edf tr\u00ean m\u00f4i khi th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd vui v\u1ebb.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 \u2013 m\u1ed9t \u00e1nh m\u1eaft, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i quan t\u00e2m hay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i \u1ea5y khi\u1ebfn crush ki\u1ec3u n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, b\u1edfi l\u1ebd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n theo th\u1eddi gian, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Crush ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tim \u0111\u1eadp nhanh, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c d\u00f5i theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u00edch (Ngu\u1ed3n: laddawan\/stock.adobe.com)<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Crush l\u00e0 th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, crush c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m n\u1eafng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec h\u1ecd qu\u00e1 xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc trong m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. <\/strong>\u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e2m m\u1ed9 th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u2013 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ca s\u0129, di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean, v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat b\u1edfi t\u00e0i n\u0103ng, ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh hay th\u1ea7n th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, crush th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng mang t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf r\u1ea5t xa v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u1ea5y v\u1eabn mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi d\u00f5i theo h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Crush th\u1ea7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 ca s\u0129 b\u1edfi t\u00e0i n\u0103ng xu\u1ea5t ch\u00fang (Ngu\u1ed3n: IbragimovN\/ stock.adobe.com)<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

Crush l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi. <\/strong>Crush b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, b\u1edfi v\u00ec hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 hi\u1ec3u nhau, chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1ee7i ro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 x\u1eed, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 chung c\u1ea3m x\u00fac hay kh\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u0169ng crush b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng, xa c\u00e1ch, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u00e0y t\u1ecf hay gi\u1eef k\u00edn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eafn \u0111o.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Crush b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, b\u1edfi v\u00ec hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 hi\u1ec3u nhau (Ngu\u1ed3n: Surachetsh\/stock.adobe.com)<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a crush khi th\u00edch b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u1eafc m\u1eafc li\u1ec7u crush c\u00f3 th\u00edch m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00f4i khi, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i ra nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u0111ang c\u1ea3m n\u1eafng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea5y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n